{"id":437,"date":"2015-07-21T17:35:44","date_gmt":"2015-07-21T21:35:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/jeanpaulsimard.com\/?p=437"},"modified":"2016-11-16T11:26:51","modified_gmt":"2016-11-16T16:26:51","slug":"qui-perd-gagne","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jeanpaulsimard.com\/index.php\/2015\/07\/21\/qui-perd-gagne\/","title":{"rendered":"Qui perd gagne !"},"content":{"rendered":"<h3 style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #99ccff;\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/jeanpaulsimard.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/12795362_963597197026929_8345048404628667252_n.jpg\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-2719\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-full wp-image-2719 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/jeanpaulsimard.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/12795362_963597197026929_8345048404628667252_n.jpg?resize=604%2C604\" alt=\"12795362_963597197026929_8345048404628667252_n\" width=\"604\" height=\"604\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/jeanpaulsimard.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/12795362_963597197026929_8345048404628667252_n.jpg?w=604&amp;ssl=1 604w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/jeanpaulsimard.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/12795362_963597197026929_8345048404628667252_n.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/jeanpaulsimard.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/12795362_963597197026929_8345048404628667252_n.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/jeanpaulsimard.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/12795362_963597197026929_8345048404628667252_n.jpg?resize=1%2C1&amp;ssl=1 1w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 604px) 100vw, 604px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #99ccff;\"><strong>IL Y A DE NOMBREUSES SITUATIONS dans la vie o\u00f9 l&rsquo;adage \u00abQui perd gagne\u00bb se v\u00e9rifie. Prenons d\u2019abord l&rsquo;adage \u00e0 l&rsquo;inverse. Combien ont perdu en gagnant! Tel ce monsieur qui, en devenant millionnaire \u00e0 la loterie, a litt\u00e9ralement d\u00e9g\u00e9n\u00e9r\u00e9, au point qu&rsquo;il est devenu une loque humaine. Un autre pensait avoir rencontr\u00e9 l&rsquo;\u00eatre de sa vie et avoir atteint la r\u00e9gion bienheureuse o\u00f9 l&rsquo;\u00eatre aim\u00e9 ne peut plus faire de mal, et pourtant il a subi l&rsquo;irr\u00e9parable outrage. Gr\u00e2ce \u00e0 cet \u00e9chec amoureux, pourtant, il \u00e9t\u00e9 soustrait \u00e0 un destin d\u2019incompr\u00e9hension et de solitude dans lequel il s&#8217;embarquait aveugl\u00e9ment. Dans combien de circonstances et d&rsquo;\u00e9v\u00e9nements, la loi de la survie s&rsquo;exprime en d\u00e9routant.<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #99ccff;\"><strong>Voici un fait qui n&rsquo;est pas banal. <\/strong><strong>Le 1<sup>er<\/sup> juin 2009, un avion d\u2019Air France transportant 228 passagers s\u2019ab\u00eeme dans l\u2019Oc\u00e9an Atlantique, entre Rio de Janeiro et Paris. L\u2019avion est pulv\u00e9ris\u00e9 et l\u2019on se perd en conjectures sur la cause de l\u2019accident. <\/strong><strong>Le lendemain, les journaux parlent d\u2019un couple de Fran\u00e7ais miracul\u00e9. Miracul\u00e9? Non pas parce que ce couple est sorti vivant du \u00abcrash\u00bb, mais parce que, avant son d\u00e9part, ce couple avait tent\u00e9 en vain d\u2019\u00e9changer des billets pour pouvoir embarquer sur ce vol. Inutile de dire combien ils \u00e9taient heureux de ce contretemps. Chanceux dans leur malchance, comme dit la sagesse populaire. L\u2019\u00e9chec leur avait sauv\u00e9 la vie!<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #99ccff;\"><strong>Si vous pouviez lire en filigrane \u00e0 travers tout \u00e9v\u00e9nement manqu\u00e9 de votre vie, vous seriez \u00e9tonn\u00e9s de savoir ce qui serait arriv\u00e9 si vous aviez r\u00e9ussi. Non pas qu&rsquo;il faille souhaiter l&rsquo;\u00e9chec et courir apr\u00e8s lui. L\u2019\u00e9chec n&rsquo;est pas \u00e0 rechercher. Paradoxalement, cependant, l\u2019\u00e9chec poss\u00e8de une dynamique parfois aussi forte que le succ\u00e8s. On a parl\u00e9 avec raison de la p\u00e9dagogie de l\u2019\u00e9chec.<\/strong><strong> L\u2019\u00e9chec est souvent la seule fa\u00e7on de nous enseigner ce que nous avons vraiment besoin de savoir sur la vie.<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #99ccff;\"><em>Jean-Paul Simard<\/em><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\n<div class=\"sharedaddy sd-sharing-enabled\"><div class=\"robots-nocontent sd-block sd-social sd-social-icon-text sd-sharing\"><h3 class=\"sd-title\">Partager\u00a0:<\/h3><div class=\"sd-content\"><ul><li class=\"share-facebook\"><a rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\" data-shared=\"sharing-facebook-437\" class=\"share-facebook sd-button share-icon\" href=\"https:\/\/jeanpaulsimard.com\/index.php\/2015\/07\/21\/qui-perd-gagne\/?share=facebook\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Cliquez pour partager sur Facebook\"><span>Facebook<\/span><\/a><\/li><li class=\"share-twitter\"><a rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\" data-shared=\"sharing-twitter-437\" class=\"share-twitter sd-button share-icon\" href=\"https:\/\/jeanpaulsimard.com\/index.php\/2015\/07\/21\/qui-perd-gagne\/?share=twitter\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Cliquez pour partager sur Twitter\"><span>Twitter<\/span><\/a><\/li><li class=\"share-linkedin\"><a rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\" data-shared=\"sharing-linkedin-437\" class=\"share-linkedin sd-button share-icon\" href=\"https:\/\/jeanpaulsimard.com\/index.php\/2015\/07\/21\/qui-perd-gagne\/?share=linkedin\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Cliquez pour partager sur LinkedIn\"><span>LinkedIn<\/span><\/a><\/li><li class=\"share-pinterest\"><a rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\" data-shared=\"sharing-pinterest-437\" class=\"share-pinterest sd-button share-icon\" href=\"https:\/\/jeanpaulsimard.com\/index.php\/2015\/07\/21\/qui-perd-gagne\/?share=pinterest\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Cliquez pour partager sur Pinterest\"><span>Pinterest<\/span><\/a><\/li><li class=\"share-email\"><a rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\" data-shared=\"\" class=\"share-email sd-button share-icon\" href=\"https:\/\/jeanpaulsimard.com\/index.php\/2015\/07\/21\/qui-perd-gagne\/?share=email\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Cliquez pour envoyer par e-mail \u00e0 un ami\"><span>E-mail<\/span><\/a><\/li><li class=\"share-print\"><a rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\" data-shared=\"\" class=\"share-print sd-button share-icon\" href=\"https:\/\/jeanpaulsimard.com\/index.php\/2015\/07\/21\/qui-perd-gagne\/\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Cliquer pour imprimer\"><span>Imprimer<\/span><\/a><\/li><li class=\"share-end\"><\/li><\/ul><\/div><\/div><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>IL Y A DE NOMBREUSES SITUATIONS dans la vie o\u00f9 l&rsquo;adage \u00abQui perd gagne\u00bb se v\u00e9rifie. Prenons d\u2019abord l&rsquo;adage \u00e0 l&rsquo;inverse. Combien ont perdu en gagnant! Tel ce monsieur qui, en devenant millionnaire \u00e0 la loterie, a litt\u00e9ralement d\u00e9g\u00e9n\u00e9r\u00e9, au point qu&rsquo;il est devenu une loque humaine. Un autre pensait avoir rencontr\u00e9 l&rsquo;\u00eatre de sa [&hellip;]<\/p>\n<div class=\"sharedaddy sd-sharing-enabled\"><div class=\"robots-nocontent sd-block sd-social sd-social-icon-text sd-sharing\"><h3 class=\"sd-title\">Partager\u00a0:<\/h3><div class=\"sd-content\"><ul><li class=\"share-facebook\"><a rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\" data-shared=\"sharing-facebook-437\" class=\"share-facebook sd-button share-icon\" href=\"https:\/\/jeanpaulsimard.com\/index.php\/2015\/07\/21\/qui-perd-gagne\/?share=facebook\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Cliquez pour partager sur Facebook\"><span>Facebook<\/span><\/a><\/li><li class=\"share-twitter\"><a rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\" data-shared=\"sharing-twitter-437\" class=\"share-twitter sd-button share-icon\" href=\"https:\/\/jeanpaulsimard.com\/index.php\/2015\/07\/21\/qui-perd-gagne\/?share=twitter\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Cliquez pour partager sur Twitter\"><span>Twitter<\/span><\/a><\/li><li class=\"share-linkedin\"><a rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\" data-shared=\"sharing-linkedin-437\" class=\"share-linkedin sd-button share-icon\" href=\"https:\/\/jeanpaulsimard.com\/index.php\/2015\/07\/21\/qui-perd-gagne\/?share=linkedin\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Cliquez pour partager sur LinkedIn\"><span>LinkedIn<\/span><\/a><\/li><li class=\"share-pinterest\"><a rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\" data-shared=\"sharing-pinterest-437\" class=\"share-pinterest sd-button share-icon\" href=\"https:\/\/jeanpaulsimard.com\/index.php\/2015\/07\/21\/qui-perd-gagne\/?share=pinterest\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Cliquez pour partager sur Pinterest\"><span>Pinterest<\/span><\/a><\/li><li class=\"share-email\"><a rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\" data-shared=\"\" class=\"share-email sd-button share-icon\" href=\"https:\/\/jeanpaulsimard.com\/index.php\/2015\/07\/21\/qui-perd-gagne\/?share=email\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Cliquez pour envoyer par e-mail \u00e0 un ami\"><span>E-mail<\/span><\/a><\/li><li class=\"share-print\"><a rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\" data-shared=\"\" class=\"share-print sd-button share-icon\" href=\"https:\/\/jeanpaulsimard.com\/index.php\/2015\/07\/21\/qui-perd-gagne\/\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Cliquer pour imprimer\"><span>Imprimer<\/span><\/a><\/li><li class=\"share-end\"><\/li><\/ul><\/div><\/div><\/div>","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"spay_email":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_is_tweetstorm":false},"categories":[24,60,55,56,59,58,20,52,25,48,65,64,47,61,53,57,46,54,63,43,44,27,51,62,2,49,45,50],"tags":[33,34],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p6sIY6-73","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":472,"url":"https:\/\/jeanpaulsimard.com\/index.php\/2015\/07\/21\/quest-ce-que-reussir-dans-la-vie\/","url_meta":{"origin":437,"position":0},"title":"Qu'est-ce que r\u00e9ussir dans la vie ?","date":"21 juillet 2015","format":false,"excerpt":"QU'EST-CE QUE R\u00c9USSIR DANS LA VIE vie ? 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